A blog about Paganism and disability.
What’s this all about?
I am a Pagan — that is, someone who believes in the holiness of nature and draws inspiration from pre-Christian religions. I am also, increasingly, someone with a disability, thanks to a hereditary condition called lipedema. (To learn more about this, visit my other blog, Big Leg Woman.)
I’m starting this blog as a way to explore the Pagan community’s engagement (or non-engagement) with its disabled members, and to advocate for Paganisms that are inclusive and welcoming to differing levels of physical ability.
Vulcan is the Roman god of the forge, and in legend was said to have a broken leg that had never healed correctly. (His Greek counterpart, Hephaestus, was said to have a clubfoot.) Despite his disability, he was a powerful deity, governing important matters such as the creation of everything metal (swords, ploughshares, jewelry) and the destructive power of fire. I choose to call this site by his name in part to invoke the power of transformation that the smith performs — in this case, transforming something burdensome (a disability) into something powerful and beautiful (the chance to advocate for a better and stronger Pagan community).
But the fire’s part of it, too. I get angry when I see Pagans treat each other thoughtlessly, or when I see anyone being treated as less than a whole person. So while I cherish the high road, it is possible that I will not always be the High Priestess of Nice.
I chose the name “Vulcan’s Sister” as a reference to Virginia Woolf’s fictional character, Judith Shakespeare, who had the same imagination and talents as her brother William, but lacked his opportunities to succeed. Vulcan, a disabled man, is able through his powerful skills and a bit of blackmail to take his place among the gods and even marry the goddess of love. Women with disabilities are not discussed in history or mythology, and even today women with disabilities experience discrimination and sometimes (sadly) abuse.
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about 14 years ago
Thank you for this important work you’re doing! I made a post about this on my blog not too long ago as well, which you might find interesting (or not): http://aediculaantinoi.wordpress.com/2010/09/27/modern-paganism-and-accessibility/
It is a very important issue for me personally, not only because I’m disabled myself, but because I want what I do to be accessible to others regardless of their physical or sensory abilities.
about 14 years ago
Thank you for this.
I’m a Pagan mom of a medically fragile little boy; while his current problems will improve with time, right now festivals are generally not feasible for us.
Shortly after my son’s birth, my husband broke his leg in a car accident and spent several months using a wheel chair.
These experiences has made me considerably more aware of accessibility everywhere, but fesivals have been particularly striking this year, as we’ve tried to figure out if we could go, and what that would take.
about 14 years ago
I’m really glad to hear more and more voices rise up from the disabled Pagan community. Thank you for the blog link. I’ve added Vulcan’s Sister to the blog roll at Pagans with Disabilities.
about 14 years ago
Thank you for this! I am also a disabled Pagan after a long career as a nurse caring for others. I do not drive, due to the medications I am on. Being on a fixed, limited income, taking taxis is out of the question. I am fortunate in that we have an active Pagan community here and many of the minor, monthly get-togethers are held in local restaurants. Unfortunately, I can not get to them. Not wanting to put people on the spot, I’ve dropped hints that I have no transportation to no avail. I would definitely insist on covering my share of the gas for any who would be willing to help me out. Our big local Esbats and Sabbat celebrations are in a park that is about 45 minutes away. I usually end up celebrating my Sabbats and Esbats alone. This is one area in which I think the Pagan community is lagging behind other faiths. Sad, because we normally do a good job in celebrating inclusiveness and diversity. It seems that Pagans who are disabled are “out of sight, out of mind” – and we most definitely are “out of sight.”
about 14 years ago
Sheridann, I’m sorry your local community isn’t more welcoming! It may be a matter of simply coming out and asking for what you need — if people are simply thoughtless, and many are, they may not have picked up on your hints. Don’t beg, just say “I’d like to come to Samhain, will chip in for gas for anyone who can get me there.” Another approach, of course, is to start your own event — maybe a small study group or grove that meets at a place that’s easy for you to reach.
about 12 years ago
What a great blog! And so needed. I’m the mom of a young man with autism who also wears hearing aids. I moderate a group for Pagan parents who’s children have a variety of physical and/or developmental disabilities. I’m glad that there are Pagan adults out in the world, helping to pave the way, raise awareness and be role models for our kids.
Thank you!